There are very few crucibles available for people to explore themselves at the deepest level.
Relationship is one of them.
Does any of this sound familiar?
You enter into new romantic experiences with the best intentions to “get it right this time” only to experience the same issues you had in the last one.
You wish you could be 100% transparent and honest about what's important to you in dating and relationships but struggle to let partners know where your boundaries are and what you need and want in your romantic life.
You want to bring a sense of open-mindedness, balance and empathy to dating and relationships but too often find yourself in a power struggle tug-of-war feeling unseen, unheard and unsupported.
You wish there was more joy, laughter and play in your love life but it feels like things are always so serious.
You want greater emotional intimacy and better sex in your relationships but have no idea how to do that or where to start.
If you did an internal nod or an external sigh to any of these you're in the right place.
I'm so glad you landed on this page and I trust what brought you here.
Each of us learns about love and relationships when we’re young by taking cues and lessons from our caregivers and carry these teachings forward into our adult relationships.
If you're stumbling in dating, have a long history of drama in your love life or want to fix a relationship I want to normalize that struggle right here and right now.
You are meant to be with someone who can connect with you on a deeper level. Someone you don't necessarily have to have a bunch of shared interests with, or someone who has a specific job or lifestyle. Someone who at the end of the day can truly see you, talk about the hard stuff, show up and be vulnerable with you. You are meant to be with someone who you can build an extraordinary life with and learn more about yourself in the process.
If you notice the gap between what you want in your love life and what you have there may be two reasons for that gap:
1. You lack the tools and practices to build or rebuild a healthy happy partnership.
2. You don't yet have a safe and structured place to learn the tools and practices.
I know this story very well because it's my story too...
Hi! I'm Michele, founder of Women Can Heal and transformation coach for women. After nearly 15 years of ghosting, being dumped, chasing unavailable men and finding unhealthy love, without having to compromise on my worth or values, I discovered how to find the love I deserved. But wait, the work doesn't end once you enter into relationship - it deepens.
That's Julian pictured with me. We've been together for 5 years. While we enjoyed a long honeymoon period our relationship demanded we keep doing the work accumulating tools and practices to maintain the health and stability of our partnership. It hasn't been easy. We've broken up. We've gotten back together. I've cried tears. I've felt immense fear. We've had to face the deepest parts of ourselves and sometime we didn't do that so... um gracefully.
Alchemy of Relationship is a culmination of everything I've learned and practiced in conscious relationships over the last 10 years. It's the exact blueprint of how I turned the lead in my relationship (pain, fear, reactivity, unwanted patterns) to gold (healing, faith, consciousness, purpose). It's perfect for women who want to fix a struggling relationship or women who desire to transform a history of love life drama into a stable, passionate and fulfilling relationship.
What clients are saying...
"This is an invaluable space.
I definitely got what I wanted from the beginning when I said I wanted a band of sisters who want to date consciously so I’m very grateful to you, Michele, for hosting and leading this for our sharing and listening. Very often growing up I didn’t feel like I was listened to and I definitely didn't feel any issues around that in this space. Women Can Heal was a powerful catalyst and provided inspiration to keep moving forward.”
Introducing Alchemy of Relationship
Alchemy of Relationship is a 6-week LIVE course that will teach you exactly how I transformed the heavy and painful lead in my relationship to gold. Alchemy is defined as "a magical process of transformation and creation" and this program is designed to support women in transforming their love lives with conscious dating and relationship practices and relationship recovery tools. It will do all this in an incredibly supportive, empowering and inspiring environment.
In This Course You'll Have the Time and Space To...
✔️ Gain complete awareness of your "origin story", core beliefs about love and unwanted self-sabotaging patterns
✔️ With self-love and compassion understand how you got where you are
✔️ Identify where you've contributed to the pain and struggle in your love life
✔️ Learn conscious dating practices and relationship recovery tools so you can turn your pain into power and purpose in your relationships
✔️ Commit to living and loving in new and healthier ways
and most importantly...
Become a True Alchemist In Your Love Life and Beyond
During the course I'll take you through my signature
Relationship Alchemy Framework
Here's a preview of the experience we'll have together by week:
Clarify your intentions and goals for the program and lay the foundation for your success
Explore your capacity for healthy "gold standard" relationships
Tap into a pool of love, sisterhood and accountability
Complete a comprehensive Dating & Relationship Audit
Gain complete awareness of your "origin story"
Understand your journey of getting where you are right now and how your love story has been perfect all along
(Re)discover core beliefs working cross-purpose to the needs and desires in your love life
Take ownership and be accountable to the ways you've contributed to your own pain and struggle
(Re)commit to living and loving in new and healthier ways
Understand how feelings, needs and coping strategies work together
Identify the lead (unhealthy coping strategies) that exists in your romantic life
Clear relationship residue and set sacred relationship boundaries that will ensure you always get your needs met
Understand what it means to be the Chief Emotional Officer (CEO) of your Love Life
Expand your capacity to neutralize reactivity and chose better responses
Explore and choose the best tools for you to process emotional triggers effectively
Learn a formula to communicate with power, grace and ease
Practice honesty in your relationships without provoking conflict or inserting criticism, insults and blame
Use language as a tool to honor yourself and give love to others
What's Included in AOR?
6 LIVE virtual classes Sundays 11am PST to 1pm PST ($997 value)
Intimate course limited to 10 women for tailored instruction and focused attention
Inspiring lecture, stimulating dialogue, individualized coaching, powerful exercises and experiential homework weekly
A 60-min support session with course lead Michele
A digital workbook to guide you through the content
A private online community with daily coaching support
Access to a digital library with replay videos, handouts and other resources to review during and after the course
A bonus session following the completion of the course, "Intimacy in Action"
Go behind the scenes of my relationship as we reveal our own relationship routines and agreements, ask your most pressing questions and get laser coaching from us both!
What Clients Are Saying...
"I had some pretty BIG revelations..."
Psst! Not ready to submit your application just yet? Have some more questions? No problem! This is a big decision and it should feel like a hell yes! In the meantime, scroll down to hear from recent graduates from my programs and for answers to FAQs about Alchemy of Relationship.
Women Can Heal clients and community members
who took action to implement what I'm going to teach you in this course...
Are You Ready to Become a True Alchemist?
Alchemy of Relationship is a priceless investment in yourself and your relationships. The program is open to 10 women.
We're going on a journey.
This program is FOR you if...
✅ you're committed to your health, happiness and healing
✅ you understand financial and emotional investments can be hard but are a part of growth and change
✅ you're ready to take both your personal growth work and healing work to the next level
✅ you want to stop carrying around lead (pain, fear, stress and uncertainty) and turn it into gold (peace, harmony, hope and purpose)
This program is NOT FOR you if...
❌ you're non-committal and unwilling to take action
❌ you're closed off to new ideas and perspectives that could help you
❌ you blame all your love life struggles on external factors and looking for a place to vent
❌ you have deep unprocessed trauma that would be best addressed with a licensed professional
❌ you have trouble getting honest and going inward