Discover the Visions, Values and Goals for your love life through an intentional and structured process of inner work.

Enrollment for Date With Depth LIVE is now closed. Date With Depth will return as a self-paced online course April 2021.

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Nowadays it's pretty standard truth that working on yourself is the #1 thing you can do to improve the quality of your dating and relationships. 

But committing to that work is first hurdle...


I'm curious...

Do you spend too much time swiping, browsing dating sites and texting with potentials?

Have you gotten overwhelmed with finding a life partner and put your love life on the back burner telling yourself you'll get to it later?

Do you want to make things better in your current relationship but (a) feel haunted by your history and (b) get sabotaged by your patterns (c) keep sweeping the inner work under the rug?

Do you know deep down there is something off about your love life but but keep dragging your feet on doing what it would take to change, grow out of it or try something new?

If so, you aren't alone and there is nothing wrong with you. 

If dating and relationships have got you down there may be two reasons for why that is:

1. You haven't yet done the inner work needed to date and be in relationships successfully.

2. You don't yet have a safe and structured space to engage intentionally with yourself and your love life.

If you want a life partner and a healthy fufuilling relationship you deserve to have just that.

You are meant to be with someone who can connect with you on a deeper level. Someone you can be stimulated by on all the levels. Someone you don't necessarily have to have a bunch of shared interests with, or someone who has a specific job or lifestyle. You are mean to be with someone who at the end of the day, can truly see you, talk about the hard stuff, show up and be vulnerable with you and encourage you to do the same. You are meant to be with someone you can build an extraordinary life with and learn more about yourself in the process. 

It's frustrating to know what you want, know what you need to do to get it and then not do it.

Having a big beautiful desire for a partner you can create a life with is awesome but it can be so frustrating to want to move in that direction but continue to end up in relationships with unavailable or inappropriate people or cycle around in the same painful issues in your current relationship. It can be overwhelming to hold your desire AND to see all the challenges you face to move forward. On top of that in those quite moments alone sadness, anxiety and fear of missing out can creep in giving us very good reason to do or think about something else and get to all this stuff later.

I know this desire and procrastination very well because was my same desire and procrastination too.

Hi! I'm Michele, founder of Women Can Heal and transformation coach for women. After nearly 15 years of ghosting, being dumped, chasing unavailable men and debilitating unhealthy love patterns, without having to compromise on my worth or values, I discovered how to find the love I deserved. I knew I needed to work on myself but I kept sweeping it under the rug. I had no idea slowing down to do the inner work would change my life forever. I'm now in a passionate, soulful and committed relationship of over 4 years with a wonderful man I'm proud and grateful to wake up next to each morning. Date With Depth is the course I wish had existed when I was looking for support with my dating life. It’s perfect for women who know some inner work is needed but feel like that work is too big or scary to tackle. Date with Depth will give you structure, accountability, inspiration and practical tools to move forward in your love life.

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

“I realized I approach dating feeling completely defeated right out of the gate.


I was looking for new perspectives and new energy to help reframe my mindset. I was curious to see what I would learn and who else would be there with me. What I found was a safe and supportive space to talk about the current state of dating from a variety of perspectives. And Michele provided key insights to navigate us through it, many of which I had never thought about in relation dating successfully. Having such a productive conversation about dating and relationships in general, helped me to realize some areas where I need to grow, boundaries I need to set and questions I need to get clear on to be able to find what I’m looking for. I left feeling more empowered, a sense of community and with some much needed tools."


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29, Dating, Based in San Francisco

Introducing Date With Depth

Date With Depth is a 6-week online course that will teach you exactly how I went from feeling stuck and hopeless in my dating and relationships to using them to grow and love myself more than I ever have.  Date With Depth is an intentional way to engage with your love life. It's designed to illuminate the root causes of your ongoing challenges in dating and relationships and teach you how to free yourself from the blocks that have been holding you back from the healthy, passionate and purposeful relationship you seek. It will do all this in an incredibly supportive, empowering and inspiring environment.

In This Course You'll Finally Have the Structure and Space to:

 ✔️ Discover the steps to find or create the relationship of your dreams


 ✔️Get to the bottom of what's not working in your love life so you can learn how to change it

✔️ Heal the beliefs and unresolved hurts from past relationships and remove all leftover blocks to the love and relationship you want right now

✔️ Raise your self-esteem to new heights you didn't even know were possible so you can transform your relationship to dating and partnership

✔️ Learn practical tools for dating and relating successfully so you feel empowered and fortified and draw out more love, respect and support in your relationships



...and most importantly

Remember the woman you know you came here to be who will have current and potential partners love you with all their hearts.

What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"I wasn't really sure if it was going to work for me..."

What You Will Learn and Do

During the course I will take you through my signature

Depth Dating Method

Here is a preview of the experience we'll have together:

Session 1: Visioning
  • Tap into your deepest desires in dating and relationships 

  • Explore your own capacity for a healthy sustainable and loving partnership

  • Set your big vision and desire for love, dating and relationship fully fulfilled

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Session 2: Clearing
  • Clear out whatever is in the way of you finding or creating the love you want

  • Discover the core beliefs and blocks affecting your ability to create a sustainable loving relationship

  • Examine your toxic ties and self-sabotaging patterns​ in dating and relationships

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Session 3: Releasing
  • Redefine who you are in relationship as you complete and release the past​

  • Explore the ingredients of true forgiveness and let go of old hurts and grudges

  • Find meaning and purpose in the challenges you've had in dating and relationships

Session 4: Education
  • Educate and fortify yourself with tools to begin removing your blocks to love

  • Learn your attachment style and how it impacts your ability to find and be in healthy sustainable partnership

  • Learn how to use red flags to your advantage and shore up your boundaries​​

Session 5: Action
  • Create a unique dating and relationship plan that will empower and inspire you

  • Make empowered choices for your health and happiness in love and dating and relationships

  • Take action toward creating more possibilities for healthy, sustainable love

Session 6: Integration
  • Lay the foundation for love, truth and conviction on your journey toward continued healing and fulfilled love

  • Use or enhance gratitude as a tool for attracting sustainable love relationships 

  • Execute your dating and relationship plan and date and relate with depth

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What's Included in Date With Depth? 

  • 6 live virtual classes Sundays 11am PST to 1pm PST ($997 value)

  • Intimate course limited to 6 women for tailored instruction and focused attention

  • Inspiring lecture, stimulating dialogue, individualized coaching, powerful exercises and experiential homework weekly


Course Bonuses

A 60-min support session with Michele your course lead ($199 value)

6 digital workbooks to guide you through the content each week ($99 value)


A private Facebook group for community and coaching support (priceless)

Lifetime access to a digital library with replay videos, handouts and other resources to review during and after the course (priceless)


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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"This is an invaluable space.


I definitely got what I wanted from the beginning when I said I wanted a band of sisters who want to date consciously so I’m very grateful to you, Michele, for hosting and leading this for our sharing and listening. Very often growing up I didn’t feel like I was listened to and I definitely didn't feel any issues around that in this space.

Date With Depth was a powerful catalyst and provided inspiration to keep moving forward.”


50, Art Therapist, Dating, Based in San Jose


"I really want coaching but it's too expensive."

  • Group programs are the most affordable way to go to work with me! I am scaling the cost of coaching across a group of participants who will share the time energy and services. It’s a win-win for everyone! Flexible payment plans are also available for this course.

"So, is this group therapy?" 

  • No. This is an educational course with coaching. While I do have a Psychology Degree and Masters of Education, I am not a licensed mental health professional and I do not provide psychotherapy, counseling, or any other mental health services that would require a license. What I do is provide education and coaching services that often result in substantial learning and life transformation.

"I'm interested but I don't really like getting vulnerable in groups.​"

  • There is power in sharing our stories. For many women, their stories are locked and buried deep within them with few outlets to express. When you take a risk and share in a safe community you can be seen and heard and those are often the first steps toward healing. And of course I tell all women I work with that you have the choice to share as much or as little as you want. Just remember that having more skin in the game raises the stakes and the likelihood of high rewards and big transformation. Finally, if groups aren't your thing there is also an option for a one-on-one private adaptation for this program. Please book a Find Your Person or a Legendary Love Breakthrough Session with me for more details. 

"I am working with a therapist already. Is it ok to take a course like this?​"

  • ABSOLUTELY! And... I would mention it to your therapist. Here are my thoughts. Working with both a therapist and a coach simultaneously can be a wonderful and complementary experience. In therapy, you get to look at every part of yourself that has shaped you into the person you are.  In coaching experiences like this, you'll get to look at who you are right now AND who you want to be.  Having both a therapist and coaching experiences like this can support each other as knowing how you came to be where you are will often help you become the person you want to be.

"What if I can't make a Sunday call?​"

  • Date With Depth is designed for you to have a dramatic and lasting transformation! It's for women who are committed to doing whatever it takes to do the inner work to find and create exceptional love. Each call, assignment, exercise is included to ensure your success. I strongly encourage all participants to do what they can to attend all the calls to get the maximum benefit out of the course. With that being said, participants are permitted to miss one call. Missing more than one (outside an emergency) will result in you being dropped from the course with no refund. 

"I don't know. I'm still on the fence. Six weeks seems like a short amount of time to get all of this done. Can you promise me the love life I want when this is all through?"

  • I wouldn’t be offering Date With Depth if I didn’t feel highly confident that I could help find and create exceptional love by working with your thoughts and clearing your emotional blockages. With that being said, your transformation ultimately depends on you to do the work here. That means showing up and engaging as much as you can with this stuff. Our classroom experiences and coaching are meant to deliver you the tools to get the continued outcomes you want without needing me after the program completes. So yes, I believe Date With Depth will lead you to the things you are looking for. Read more praise for and results from the program here.

What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"I had some pretty BIG revelations..."

Are You Ready to Date With Depth?

Date With Depth is a priceless investment in yourself and is available to women in this cohort. This program is for people committed to their health, happiness and healing. It's for women who are ready to stop living in pain, stress and uncertainty about her love life and start dating and relating intentionally to find and create the love they deserve. If you want to speak with my directly you can book a 30 minute Date With Depth Discovery Call. 

Take a moment to ask yourself these four important questions before booking your a call:

1. Do I really want to transform my love life right now?

2. Can I find a quiet place for my Date With Depth Discovery Call?

3. Can I show up on time for my Date With Depth Discovery Call?

4. Am I committed to my healing, growth and fulfillment in romantic love?

What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"This is a truly healing and transformative course.

Highly recommend!"

About Your Guide

Hi! I'm Michele Wellington. I'm a certified personal coach at Women Can Heal and the founder of The Women’s Wake Up Club. I consider myself a seeker and practitioner of life. I've learned the art finding love by radically transforming my life over the last ten years. Read more about my story in detail here.

After nearly 15 years of ghosting, being dumped, chasing unavailable men, and finding unhealthy love, without having to compromise on my worth or values, I discovered how to find and create the love I deserved.


I'm now in a passionate, soulful and committed relationship with a wonderful man I'm  proud and grateful to wake up next to each morning. In my teaching and coaching I bring precision, raw truth, fierce loyalty and immense love to the women I work with. I bring kindness, support and patience and balance it out with honest reflection encouraging you past any distractions you have around your awakening, healing, desire and purpose.


Here's the bottom line: I'll have your back in awakening more than perhaps anyone you'll ever meet in a lifetime. It is my calling to bring this transformative work to other women so they can experience the lasting changes I, and so many others before them have. 


What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"I had been struggling in my love life for a really long time..."

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"I was worried about being judged for joining.

I joined Date With Depth because I was looking for more clarity. Expectations in dating and finding love didn't work out for me - so I was looking for more acceptance of my feelings, desires and how to use my inner love to frame all of it and to even grow beyond what I framed.


I worried about being judged for joining. We are all independent, strong women - being vulnerable and admitting that there is an inner drive for more fulfillment in our love life - this seemed to be a weakness at first glance.


Date With Depth revealed new facets for me. I feel equipped and excited. It helped me clearly shape my needs and desires and showed me that we are not alone in all our anxiety and search for love! I was lucky to meet some women who were willing to share so much of themselves - so it made it easy for me to do the same. I also want to mention  that this goes beyond romantic relationships and helped me in all my relationships.


Michele is so calm, honest, listening, present - I could feel her authenticity of the program and the tools, practices, discussions we shared. She created an inspirational, safe place where we can share very deep feelings, sad, but also successes to discover ourselves without fearing judgement.


I would totally recommend Date With Depth. It’s for women who are ready to turn inside and want to reveal and grow.”


Scientist, Dating

 San Francisco, California

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"This course was life changing.

I enrolled to let go of anger towards men that was affecting my dating patterns.  Also, to break and discover dating patterns to find a healthy  life long partner. I loved Date With Depth it was broken down into different categories. The beginning felt transformative releasing anger and past hurt. The second half was educational and informative to help us set our goals. Thank you for this life changing opportunity that provided education and introspection rooted from a loving group!"


School Counselor​

30, Dating, New York, New York


What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"I was hesitant at first about the time commitment and my own emotional blocks around being vulnerable in a group setting.

Just before learning about Date With Depth I was a year post-breakup in a relationship that had almost no intimacy. Over the last several months I'd been learning about conscious relationships and had recently decided I was ready to call one in. 


When I enrolled in Date With Depth, I had just met the man I'm now in a relationship with. My biggest concern was how to determine whether this man is right for me. I also wanted to develop tools to create conscious relationships and to be part of a group of women who are on the same journey. I was hesitant at first to the time commitment and my own emotional blocks around being vulnerable in a group setting.


During the program I gained a better understanding of how my childhood experiences affect the way I show up in relationships and how to navigate triggers with my new partner while doing my own inner work to heal.


What I liked best about working with Michele is that she is a wealth of knowledge, resources, and tools for doing deep inner work! From a professional standpoint as a coach, Michele was an amazing model for how to run an effective group program that holds sacred space!


Date With Depth is for women who have been realizing they need to do some inner work around relationships. They will learn a lot about themselves and begin to see themselves from a new, more compassionate perspective!" 


Social Worker, Coach, In new partnership

Austin, Texas