An online course ideal for single women that examines your relationship history and patterns so that you bring awareness, confidence and intention to your love life.

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You deserve a life partner...

 

and a healthy fulfilling relationship.

You are meant to be with someone who can connect with you on a deeper level.

Someone who can emotionally, spiritually, physically, intellectually energize you!

It’s your destined path to be with someone who can truly see you for who you are and who will unconditionally support you in your own personal growth.

So you're probably thinking...

“I get all that, but...I’m scared.”

You’re probably thinking...

"I have too much baggage to resolve and I feel overwhelmed."

I'm guessing you’re frustrated with the unhealthy patterns you’ve created in your past relationships but keep making the same not-so-great choices. 

It's been said the definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing over and over again, wishing for a better and different result.

So, let me ask you something.

 

When dating and in relationships, do you:

  • feel haunted by your past love history but spend way too much time swiping, browsing and thinking about potentials?

  • get sabotaged by your patterns and feel deep down there's something a little off about your love life

  • get overwhelmed with finding a life partner keep sweeping the inner work you know you need to do under the rug?

Do you, like many of us, in those quiet moments alone, feel sad, anxious and afraid of missing out on your beautiful desire to be happy and in love?

If so, I don't blame you for having very good reasons to avoid all that pain from the past.

If you feel any of this you're not alone and there isn't anything wrong with you.

If dating and relationships have disappointed and frustrated you, there may be one big reason for why that is: 

You’re aware that you have some deeper unresolved stuff when it comes to dating and relationships but you haven’t given yourself the time or the space to address it.

I know this desire and avoidance very well because was my same desire and avoidance too.

Hey! I'm Michele.

 

After nearly 15 years of ghosting, being dumped, chasing unavailable men and debilitating unhealthy love patterns, without having to compromise on my worth or values, I discovered how to find the love I deserved. I knew I needed to work on myself but I kept sweeping it under the rug. I had no idea slowing down to do the inner work would change my life forever. I'm now in a passionate, soulful and committed relationship of over 5 years with a wonderful man I'm proud and grateful to wake up next to each morning.

 

Keep scrolling to learn about my program Date With Depth. I wish this course had existed when I was looking for support with my dating life. It’s perfect for women who know some inner work is needed but feel like that work is too big or scary to tackle. Date with Depth will give you structure, accountability, inspiration and practical tools to move forward in your love life. It's meant to support you in your process of opening, self-reflection and intentional inner work. I hope you will join me for this transformational journey. For a deeper dive into my story go here.

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...
“I realized I approach dating feeling completely defeated right out of the gate.
 
I was looking for new perspectives and new energy to help reframe my mindset. I was curious to see what I would learn and who else would be there with me. What I found was a safe and supportive space to talk about the current state of dating from a variety of perspectives. And Michele provided key insights to navigate us through it, many of which I had never thought about in relation dating successfully. Having such a productive conversation about dating and relationships in general, helped me to realize some areas where I need to grow, boundaries I need to set and questions I need to get clear on to be able to find what I’m looking for. I left feeling more empowered, a sense of community and with some much needed tools."

Lissa
Brand Manager
31, Dating, Based in San Francisco

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Introducing Date With Depth

Date With Depth is a 6-session online course created specifically for women who struggle with dating and in relationships to learn the tools to find their ideal life partner and create relationships that truly light them up.

The course is designed to illuminate the root causes of persistent challenges in dating and relationships and teaches you how to free yourself from the blocks holding you back from the healthy, passionate and purposeful relationship you’re seeking.

In This Course You'll Finally Have the Structure and Space to:

 ✔️ Learn the exact steps to find or create enjoyable, healthy and successful relationships so that it’s no longer this giant mystery.

✔️ Gain crystal clear knowledge of what’s not working in your dating and relationship life so that you finally correct and change it.

✔️ Experience healing from your limiting beliefs and unresolved pain from the past so that you access the love you want right now.

✔️ Feel more empowered and confident in a way that you didn’t even know were possible.

✔️ Learn practical tools for conscious dating so you will feel more confident and emboldened in navigating relationships.

and most importantly....

Be reminded of your SOUL PURPOSE
as a woman.

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Course Outline

Here is a preview of the experience we'll have together:

Session 1: Visioning
  • Tap into your deepest desires in dating and relationships 

  • Explore your own capacity for a healthy sustainable and loving partnership

  • Set your big vision and desire for love, dating and relationship fully fulfilled

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Session 2: Clearing
  • Clear out whatever is in the way of you finding or creating the love you want

  • Discover the core beliefs and blocks affecting your ability to create a sustainable loving relationship

  • Examine your toxic ties and self-sabotaging patterns​ in dating and relationships

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Session 3: Releasing
  • Redefine who you are in relationship as you complete and release the past​

  • Explore the ingredients of true forgiveness and let go of old hurts and grudges

  • Find meaning and purpose in the challenges you've had in dating and relationships

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Session 4: Education
  • Educate and fortify yourself with tools to begin removing your blocks to love

  • Learn your attachment style and how it impacts your ability to find and be in healthy sustainable partnership

  • Learn how to use red flags to your advantage and shore up your boundaries​​

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Session 5: Action
  • Create a unique dating and relationship plan that will empower and inspire you

  • Make empowered choices for your health and happiness in love and dating and relationships

  • Take action toward creating more possibilities for healthy, sustainable love

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Session 6: Integration
  • Lay the foundation for love, truth and conviction on your journey toward continued healing and fulfilled love

  • Use or enhance gratitude as a tool for attracting sustainable love relationships 

  • Execute your dating and relationship plan and date and relate with depth

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Here's What You'll Receive

Your Course Components

  • 30+ Video Lessons over the 6 sessions of the course

  • 20+ Video Coaching and Q&A clips inside The Date With Depth Vault

  • Lifetime Access to your online course portal where you'll find all video lessons, The Vault, handouts and other resources to review

  • 6 Digital Workbooks to guide you through each session

  • Experiential and Integration Assignments to go with each session

Your Course Bonuses

1. The Date With Depth Visioning Meditation:

This meditations goes with session one Visioning and can be used as a daily foundational practice throughout the course to help you clarify your vision and desires in your love life and aid in making you magnetic to their fulfillment.

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2. Empowered Dating Scripts

Have you ever been stumped by what to say in certain dating situations? Interested in someone but not ready to kiss yet? Not feeling a spark and wanting to be conscious and kind? With Empowered Dating Scripts, you’ll always have an example of an empowered response for your most pressing online and offline dating scenarios.

3. Conscious Dating Scripts

Do you struggle to assert yourself in your relationships? Do you worry voicing your opinion in your relationship may lead to more conflict? In this special Bonus offer, you’ll receive relationship scripts so you have the language to express consciously not only in your romantic life but across the board in your day to day life.

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4. Interview with Relationship Expert Mark Groves

Exclusively for Date With Depth participants, Mark AKA @createthelove shares about his body of work, learning from breakups, working with shame and rage and his top 3 perspective shifts needed to date and be in relationships successfully

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Engaged to be married!

FAQs

Does this course require special knowledge or experience?


This course requires no specific knowledge or experience to take. The best thing you can do to prepare is to bring an open mind and willingness to grow.




Do I have to finish the course in a certain time period?


No. While this program is designed to be completed over six week (one session per week) it is not a requirement. Once you register for the program you’ll have lifetime access to the online portal of “Date With Depth” so you are free to design your own schedule and go at your own pace if you so choose. All of the videos, digital workbooks and bonuses are yours to keep forever so please take as long as you like to work through the material if you want to.




So, is this course like therapy?


No. This is an educational course. While I do have a Psychology Degree and Masters of Education, I am not a licensed mental health professional and I do not provide psychotherapy, counseling, or any other mental health services that would require a license. What I provide in this course is education, training and access to coaching and Q&A videos about dating, relationships, healing and personal growth that all have the potential for substantial learning and life transformation.




I am working with a therapist already. Is it ok to take a course like this?​


ABSOLUTELY! And… I would mention it to your therapist. Here are my thoughts. Working with both a therapist and taking a transformational course like this can be a wonderful and complementary experience. In therapy, you get to look at every part of yourself that has shaped you into the person you are. With an online course like Date With Depth, created by a certified coach, you’ll get to look at who you are right now AND who you want to be. Having both a therapist and course like this can support each other as knowing how you came to be where you are will often help you become the person you want to be.




Is this course LGBTQ friendly and inclusive of diverse relationship models?


Sure is! As the guide for this program, I’m in a heterosexual coupleship and use personal stories to teach the content inside Date With Depth. The course is not gender specific or oriented toward any specific sexual orientation. I welcome any feedback that will help make this program more inclusive as you go through the program.




What if I need more support? Is this program available with coaching?


Yes! If you're curious about this option please explore the "workshop version of Date WIth Depth. It includes 4 private sessions with Michele. Please go here.





About Your Guide

Michele is a mentor and guide for women at Women Can Heal and also the founder of The Women’s Wake Up Club.  A seeker and practitioner of life she's learned the art finding healthy balanced love by radically transforming her life over the last ten years. 

In her education and mentoring she brings precision, raw truth, fierce loyalty and immense love to the women she works with. She infuses her work with kindness, encouragement, patience and a dash of humor and balances all that out with honest reflection encouraging you past any distractions, blindspots or denial you may have around your emotional growth, healing, desire and purpose.

 

She'll have your back in awakening more than perhaps anyone you'll ever meet in a lifetime. It is her calling to bring this level of transformative work to other women so they can experience the lasting changes she, and so many others before them have. 

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"This is a truly healing and transformative course.

Highly recommend!"

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"I was worried about being judged for joining.

I joined Date With Depth because I was looking for more clarity. Expectations in dating and finding love didn't work out for me - so I was looking for more acceptance of my feelings, desires and how to use my inner love to frame all of it and to even grow beyond what I framed.

 

I worried about being judged for joining. We are all independent, strong women - being vulnerable and admitting that there is an inner drive for more fulfillment in our love life - this seemed to be a weakness at first glance.

 

Date With Depth revealed new facets for me. I feel equipped and excited. It helped me clearly shape my needs and desires and showed me that we are not alone in all our anxiety and search for love! I was lucky to meet some women who were willing to share so much of themselves - so it made it easy for me to do the same. I also want to mention  that this goes beyond romantic relationships and helped me in all my relationships.

 

Michele is so calm, honest, listening, present - I could feel her authenticity of the program and the tools, practices, discussions we shared. She created an inspirational, safe place where we can share very deep feelings, sad, but also successes to discover ourselves without fearing judgement.

 

I would totally recommend Date With Depth. It’s for women who are ready to turn inside and want to reveal and grow.”

Kerstin

Scientist, Dating

 San Francisco, California

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"This course was life changing.

I enrolled to let go of anger towards men that was affecting my dating patterns.  Also, to break and discover dating patterns to find a healthy  life long partner. I loved Date With Depth it was broken down into different categories. The beginning felt transformative releasing anger and past hurt. The second half was educational and informative to help us set our goals. Thank you for this life changing opportunity that provided education and introspection rooted from a loving group!"

Amanda

School Counselor​

30, Dating, New York, New York

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What Graduates of Date With Depth Are Saying...

"I was hesitant at first about the time commitment and my own emotional blocks around being vulnerable in a group setting.

Just before learning about Date With Depth I was a year post-breakup in a relationship that had almost no intimacy. Over the last several months I'd been learning about conscious relationships and had recently decided I was ready to call one in. 

 

When I enrolled in Date With Depth, I had just met the man I'm now in a relationship with. My biggest concern was how to determine whether this man is right for me. I also wanted to develop tools to create conscious relationships and to be part of a group of women who are on the same journey. I was hesitant at first to the time commitment and my own emotional blocks around being vulnerable in a group setting.

 

During the program I gained a better understanding of how my childhood experiences affect the way I show up in relationships and how to navigate triggers with my new partner while doing my own inner work to heal.

 

What I liked best about working with Michele is that she is a wealth of knowledge, resources, and tools for doing deep inner work! From a professional standpoint as a coach, Michele was an amazing model for how to run an effective group program that holds sacred space!

 

Date With Depth is for women who have been realizing they need to do some inner work around relationships. They will learn a lot about themselves and begin to see themselves from a new, more compassionate perspective!" 

Kendall

Social Worker, Coach, In new partnership

Austin, Texas